If Not Now, When?

Snow is falling on this day, the 29th of December 2012.  There are just two days until 2013 arrives and all of its promise and hopes.  But before we take the leap into 2013, I wanted to take a moment to look back on 2012.

To say it has been quite a year is an understatement.PicMonkey Collage

In preparing to write this piece, I took a look back at what consumed my blog in 2012.  And it quickly became clear that life is never boring and quite honestly, these are the days in which they should be never boring – and for that, I am grateful.

Milestones were plentiful – First Communion, First Day of Kindergarten, First time on national TV and First time in Ireland.

Mishaps were plentiful too – Missed birthday calls, broken promises and failed resolutions.

Laughter was abound – Late night with girlfriends, Patch blog taking a life of its own and kids saying the darn-est thing.

Sadness was present – Hurricanes, shootings and lost opportunities.

Kindness and goodness abound – Homes open to friends and family, visits with soup made with love and encouraging words when they were needed most.

In the closing months of 2012, much occurred that lent to feeling that anything pre-October was a lifetime ago.  Heartbreak, disbelief and grief on a national level impacted my every day life and that of my family.  But through it all, writing my posts helped me sort through my feelings and allowed me to place things in perspective.

To 2012, I thank you for all the love and laughter, grief and sadness, lessons and experiences.  You were a year of learning and growing.

To 2013, I welcome you with open arms and an open mind.  I hope I can retain the passion and commitment to fill the pages of this blog with posts and stories that will continue to connect me with those who help me create these posts and those who are kind enough to read them.

Because if not now, when?

 

 

Merry Christmas

Wishing all of you a very Merry Christmas.

May your day be filled with love, laughter and peace.

And because this is too funny not share……..

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And in all honesty, I don’t mind it one bit.

I am just happy and blessed and lucky to have the chance to do this (while enjoying the delicious drinks that Hubby makes).

From my family to yours…….

Merry Christmas!

 

 

26 Random Acts of Kindness

00-newtown-ct-massacre-angels-18-12-12Next week, I am fortunate enough to be home with my family celebrating the holiday season.  With whispers of a possible white Christmas and a week filled with lavish dinners and presents and laughter, it will be a week to cherish.  However, in Newtown CT, there will be 26 families among hundreds who will not share this joy.

In honor of the lives lost in Newtown CT, I am proudly, and without any shame, jumping on the bandwagon of 26 Random Acts of Kindness.  A movement quickly gaining steam and believed to be started by Ann Curry, the movement is simple yet powerful.  Join me (I will begin tomorrow) and spread kindness throughout your area.  Simply, write/print/email 26 notes with a brief explanation and ask the recipient to pass the kindness along.  The options are limitless.

In the following week, I will share photos and stories on my facebook fan page.  I encourage you to share your acts as well.

This entire season has been difficult and I as I mentioned in my last post, we all need a little Christmas – let’s make this season end with kindness.

*Please note, this photo was not mine.  Found online, I used picmonkey to add the text.  I take no credit for this photo.

We Need a Little Christmas

It has been a difficult season, and despite my efforts to remain focused and merry and bright, the journey has not been easy. Now more than ever, me – we – and maybe you too – need a little Christmas.

There are still gifts to be bought, presents to be wrapped and events to attend.  All in a day’s work, right?

As a child, I would sit for hours and listen to my parents Johnny Mathis Holiday album. And today, years and years later, I am calling on this song to help me get into the Christmas mood.

I think it’s working……I hope it works for you too.

A Light on My Front Porch

photo(4)I sat helpless watching sadness unfold and I sit tonight still unable to really express my thoughts on paper.  I struggle with this very post, but hope my message comes across.

Yesterday, I lit a candle and placed it on my front porch.  I lit the candle in honor of the little angels in hopes they could see from up above that their light was being honored by so many of us down on Earth.

Tonight, I lit a candle and placed it on my front porch.  I hope the little angels could see the light once again and know their spirit is being honored.

Perhaps tomorrow and the night after that and the night after that – I will light a candle on my front porch for the 20 little angels and the six heroic angels that  look down on us from up above.

It is not much, I know.  It will fix nothing, I know.  I just hope….I just hope ……