Successful New Jersey Business Women Give Address Regarding Motherhood

Three successful New Jersey businesswomen have recently hosted an event designed to empower mothers involved in high powered careers to embrace the art of change. The event was planned in the latter part of 2016 and went off without a hitch with a reported 3000 women in attendance. The event’s hosts and speakers, MaryAnn LoFrumento, Myriam Alvarez, and Anna Maria Chavez, spent the day encouraging mothers to become fluent in their careers and become actively involved in motherhood. Motherhood, the hosts repeatedly exclaimed, is always to be placed above careers because of the duty to care for the life of another human being.

 

Myriam Alvarez opened the event with a memorable anecdote about her life as a businesswoman and a mother. Alvarez became very successful in the field of journalism and news at an early age. After graduating college, Alvarez landed a prestigious internship with a notable news agency and later became one of the leaders of this agency. Just as she began to advance in her career, Alvarez received the devastating news that her small son had been diagnosed with cancer. Alvarez stated that she immediately realized that her responsibility was the primary care of her son. She quit her job to help his physicians to restore his health. After her son went into remission, Alvarez stated that she expected the joy she had previously found in her work to return when she did. She did not find the same joy, however, and realized that she desired to be with her children on a continuous basis and did not wish to waste precious time with them. Alvarez eventually quit her journalism job with the United Nations and pursued a career in writing and publishing from home. Her advice to the women at the event was to embrace the change that life often hands mothers and to find careers that assist them in the pursuit of life’s most important tasks. Chatham and LoFrumento gave similar accounts of times when they were pushed into a new direction in their careers for the sake of motherhood and announced that they could not be happier in their new careers.

 

 

Ways Parents Can Show Love To Your Children

Parents love their children. However, some people have trouble showing their love to children. Showing love to your children does not have to be difficult. Children need to hear the words “I love you” on a regular basis. There are many ways that you can show this love. You can give them hugs and kisses. You can also hold your child’s hand when you are walking.

 

You can tell your child that you love him or her anytime. You can say “I love you” while you are riding in the car with your child or putting him or her to bed. You can also say “I love you” while your child is helping you with the kitchen. Those three words are powerful.

 

Touch is also important. It helps a child feel loved and appreciated. Even if your child has done something wrong, he or she should still feel loved. For example, you can touch your child’s hand and let him or her know that the behavior is not okay. It is also important to find creative ways to show love to your child. You do not want to overwhelm your child by giving too many kisses or hugs.

 

When children do not receive love, they are more likely to develop mental issues later in life. Showing your child love does not guarantee that they will not develop mental problems. However, being loved is important for one’s mental health.

 

Showing love to your children may come easier if you think about how your life has been enhanced by having a child. While raising a child comes with many challenges, it can also bring you a lot of joy. It is exciting to watch your child grow up and discover new things. Showing love to your children can also make it easier for you to show love to other people in your life.

 

 

 

Why Parents Should Let Their Children Pick Their Own Major

Parents have their child’s best interest at heart when they urge them to pursue a certain major. However, experts say that this is not a good idea. Shannon Reed is a college professor. She is used to seeing kids bummed. Most of these kids are not upset because they do not like their roommate or their grades are not up to par. The kids are unhappy because they are pursuing a major that they do not like.

 

Shannon often asks people why they are pursuing careers like medicine or law if they do not want to. They often say they choose the major that their parents wanted them to. Shannon sees the toll that this takes on students every day. One of her students came into her office crying because he got a C in calculus. He was studying engineering and did not want to tell his parents.

 

This student was not good at math. He did not want to be an engineer. His dream career was a zoologist. It is difficult to be a zoologist. However, it is even harder to succeed in a career that you are not naturally good at.

 

Millennials often get a bad rap. However, most of them are in college because they really want to be. They want to learn more about the world and meet new people. They also want to develop morals and ethics. Additionally, they are willing to work hard, but they often fall short of meeting their parents’ expectations.

 

College is expensive. Many parents either have to pay out of pocket or co-sign on loans. Parents convince their children to pursue a particular career path because they want to make sure that the return on investment will be worth it. However, it is important to remember that a four-year liberal arts college is not really designed to prepare a person for a particular job. That is what trade schools are for.

 

Many students do not know what they want to do with their life. Spending time in college helps them figure that out. Parents should assist their children in finding a viable career path. However, parents should support their children instead of taking their choices away.

 

Family Leaves after a New Born

According to a new report, the number of the new mothers that are opting for the maternity leave remain stagnant even though there has been economic growth. This has gone against the expert’s expectations since the ease on the family finances would enable more mothers to take time off from their jobs after they have given birth to a child. Though more than half of the maternity leave that is taken by the American mothers are not paid the figure has is slow to change. On the other hand, the number of leaves taken by men has increased at a high rate during this time, shows the report by the Center for Human Resource of the Ohio State University.

 

 

According to the report, there is no fluctuation of the number of the mothers taking leaves whether paid or unpaid. For instance, there has been an average of 273,000 women who took maternity leave between 1994 and 2015. This translate to constant maternity leaves per 10,000 birth remained constant. These figures defy logic because the country experienced 66% growth in the economy in the same period. According to Jay Zagorsky a contributor to the report he said that he expected the number of women taking maternity leaves to increase considering the growth of the economy.

 

 

Three states that include New Jersey, Rhode Island as well as California have also passed legislation on maternity leaves. For example, the New Jersey’s family policy that was passed in 2009, enables mothers to take leave for six weeks at reduced pay, that has an annual cap, for the care of the infant or the ailing member of the family. The number of people taking leaves is about 3000 each year, this is according to the report that was released last year.

 

 

The state of New Jersey was the second state after California to enact family leave after a new born. According to officials, this was one of the most vital steps toward investing in the future of the young children as well as their families. After passing of the reforms most parents and other stake holders believed that New Jersey needed to make some minimalist law reforms so that to make the law work efficiently for that parent who is in the low-income bracket.

 

Mommy in Labor Called to Breast Feed her Hungry Two-Year-Old Daughter

There is no doubt that a good parent goes above and beyond for a child. This is innate as most parents try to give their children their all, which is something that Kate Neal demonstrated while giving birth to her child. Neal’s eldest was in the room and got a little hungry, and her labor did not stop her from feeding her two-year-old child.

 

Neal was having a home birth, but her midwife was not happy with the progression of her labor. It seems that Neal’s blood pressure raised some concerns, which is when they decided to go to the hospital. Neal had not seen her little girl for some time due to the labor, so she was very happy to see her.

 

It may be possible that her little girl, Rowan, was just hungry or she just missed her mother, but the point is that she asked to be fed. Neal was more than happy to oblige and she had not taken any drugs at this time since it was pretty early on in her labor. Everyone, including the midwife, thought it would be perfectly fine to breastfeed little Rowan.

 

Neal’s little girl did not feed for too long before leaving to play as most kids would. It was not too long after this beautiful moment that her labor began and, in the blink of an eye, Sloane was born.

 

There is no doubt that this mother will not let anything stop her from giving her all to her children. Sloan may be too young to understand just yet, but she is one lucky little girl. Neal did not feel strange about feeding her new born so soon after feeding her other child. This is definitely a story that is going to be told for years. Neal might not have known this, but it seems that breastfeeding before labor may help speed up the labor process, making birth a little easier.

 

How to Learn to Take Care of Yourself When You’re a Parent

As a parent in your childrearing years, it’s more important than ever to take care of your own health. With that being said, most parents focus more on the health of their spouses and children. Naturally, making sure that the welfare of your family is first and foremost is a normal tendency, but it’s also important that you take care of yourself. After all, you can’t take care of your family until you take care of yourself. To help you put some of your focus on yourself instead of always on your family, use the following guidelines.

 

Get organized.

 

The first thing that you’ll want to do is get organized. If you’re looking to lose weight or get healthier, you need to track your progress, which means that you’ll need to get a calendar or a workbook to write down your habits and plan your goals. Remember that whenever you have a goal, you need to organize it and chop it into pieces so that you can tackle each piece. The progress that you make may be slow, but that’s okay. Slow and steady wins the race.

 

Take time for yourself.

 

Taking time for yourself as a parent is difficult. Your children and spouse are always demanding things of you, but it is absolutely essential that you make time to be alone and do the things that you want to do. What are you passionate about? Focus on those things, and don’t let other small hiccups or bumps in the road get in the way. You deserve to focus on your passions and hobbies and have time to yourself each and every day. But you must make it for yourself. No one else will corner off time for you.

 

Eat healthy and exercise.

 

Lastly, don’t forget that eating healthy and exercising on a regular basis is another essential of taking care of yourself as a parent. Not only will this help your mind and body, but you’ll also be setting a good example for your kids and the rest of your family. And that’s exactly what you need to do is a parent.

 

PARENTS & GROWING UP

Parenting within central New Jersey, or anywhere for that matter, can be both an internal struggle and a challenge as a whole. The secret lies in learning to overcome and face those challenges head on, be what they be. In Michelle’s Tea’s new novel book, which is called “Black Waves”….she discusses this.

 

Ms. Tea also discussed numerous factors in parenting which will affect the outcome and overall result of the seeds planted later on in life. Such factors do include but are certainly not limited to: setting and geographical information as it relates to upbringing and birth itself, demographics, age difference, social and gender barriers between parents & siblings themselves, and so much more. The proof truly lies in the pudding, as many say. Some ideas are not directly said or derived specifically throughout the novel piece, yet the message is very clear….and the point is there, whether through a subliminal message or through another form or audience consumer targeting. This author is very clear, and there is no doubt about that….or any room for confusion on that matter.

 

 

To whet some appetites in the room just a bit further, I add a quote from a rather interesting online news source:

“Midway through, Michelle leaves San Francisco for Los Angeles, with vague plans to write screenplays, connect with her brother and get sober, or at least cut back a bit. But instead of shifting to an earnest story of self-acceptance, the book breaks itself open.Multiple versions of events….” (http://www.nytimes.com/2016/09/25/books/review/black-wave-michelle-tea.html, para. 5)

In this sense, one can see how the book is carried through….and what it says about the many unknown things within the minds of parents and families as a whole. They indeed go through many things internally on a regular daily basis, which is certainly not to be ignored here…..as is not in the article and in the book itself. Many fascinating topics as to the dark and exhausted minds of seasoned parents are covered as well, thinking which stimulates certain ideas which one will typically not find elsewhere. Yet they are interesting to note and consider on the whole, making for quite an interesting sub topic on parenting and family struggles within the big cities and those bigger suburb areas.

 

PARENTING AND ITS PERKS

Parenting in large cities, such as in Central New Jersey and Central New York, for example, can its many upsides and pluses in addition to the numerous risks and troubling factors mentioned by the vast masses. For example, with a bigger population also comes more increased security and services available to all. This in itself is not a bad thing at all when you really stop to smell the roses and think about it. Yes, there is more crowded population and pollution. Yet it is a bigger environment which offers more to the parent seeking to raise children, and have them around numerous other children and parents in the area…..therefore, increased protection and family life security as well. There is not to mention the bonus perks of added satisfaction and personal pride which one takes in saying that they are from this city or that city, and that their child or children were brought up in this one or that one, as they say….

 

With parenting in such a large area of the nation as a whole, one does get the added benefit of greater acceptance and more ‘cliques’ or peer groups from which to choose from. No matter where one goes within the city, typically, one is always bound to find and maintain a place of acceptance regardless of any difference. All in all, truly and surely, it is a place to call home. Many numerous people of all backgrounds and stereotypes reside in large cities, and children growing up within them have a greater chance to see and interact with a larger variety of people groups and cultures as a whole….thereby adding to and increasing the overall growth and learning development opportunities within their brains. This also adds to their experience repertoire, and the parent as a whole feels more proud.

 

A slight down side is that:

“Our child could go to school dressed in shorts and a T-shirt and feel wrong and awkward and not himself. Or he could wear what felt right and possibly face the wrath of his fellow elementary-school students.When he woke up on that last day of summer vacation, the first thing he said was that….” (http://www.nytimes.com/2016/09/18/fashion/modern-love-transgender-child-identity-parenting.html?_r=0, pg. 1)

Yet all in all more options are offered here.

 

PARENTING & EMPTY NESTERS: YOU KNOW

According to an online web site news source located on this link below, parenting, it seems, it certainly not what it used to be. Financially, emotionally, socially, and spiritually….things have truly changed. In particular, they have changed much for those empty nester parents and their offspring. Allow me to quote a wonderful slice of this online news source(http://www.nytimes.com/2016/09/18/fashion/empty-nest-parents-children-college.html?_r=0, pg. 1).
“The etiquette of the empty nest can bedevil even the most sophisticated parent. Take, for instance, the actress Alfre Woodard. Ms. Woodard said that when her younger child (her son, Duncan) went to college in 2012, her depression caught her in a bind.”

Now with that said, it does seem that empty nesters do indeed rage against an eternal or eternally-seeming struggle which at times is more difficult to bear. As such, things can be more difficult and more intolerable to bear as a whole….for the sole parent, the individual who has left the nest or is leaving the nest, and/or the family and friends as a whole. Hard times do truly take their hard toll here, as is mentioned well throughout the article piece.

Another thing to note is the very fact that there are many unfelt and unheard, plus unseen tears…which are bourne by the parents involved. They are carried and often not released or talked about with others, which may sometimes carry a bit of a heavier load on the present family involved as well. A sense of control is maximized as the reins of control are tightened a bit towards the other siblings, of which they may see and feel as unfair…..not truly understanding the feelings or emotional connections which parents go through for their children of any and all ages. Once a son or daughter, always a son or daughter…..and nothing can change that: not time or travel or experience or anything else.

A parent’s job—-at least a good, loving parent’s job—–is to always love and support their children….and feel for them if they are ever hurt, in need, or moving out of the nest. This can be a more painful experience than some will ever know or fully come to grasp within their own life time. Yet it is absolutely and one hundred percent there and present.

How to Treat the Flu When Your Kids Have It

Most people will get the flu at least once in their lives. When your child has influenza, it is your job to take care of them as their parent. But you also need to make sure that you don’t get the flu yourself. This can be helped by always getting a flu shot.

 

The following is a list of guidelines that will help you take proper care of your son or daughter when they have the flu.

 

Consider antiviral drugs.

 

During the first one or two days that you notice flu symptoms in your child, you may be able to get them drug treatments through their doctor or at an urgent care facility. Antiviral drugs can treat influenza because influenza comes from a virus. You cannot treat influenza with antibiotics and those only treat illnesses that are caused by bacteria. It is best to use antiviral drugs in the first one or two days of the flu, but if your child is at extreme risk for influenza complications, you should get antiviral drugs for them no matter where you are in the influenza timeline.

 

Have them stay home from school and all activities.

 

The best way to get rid of the flu is with rest. For this reason, your children should not go to school while they have influenza. Likewise, you’ll likely need to stay home with them. You should both stay home for at least 24 hours or until the flu fever has subsided and your child has a normal temperature. Anyone who has the flu should stay away from the elderly and babies especially.

 

Make sure that you stay safe from the flu.

 

Influenza or the flu is extremely contagious, so you’ll need to be extra careful that you don’t catch the flu as your child’s caretaker. To help in this, make sure that you have the proper equipment. You should have antibacterial hand wipes, hand sanitizer and a face mask.

 

Your child should stay in one room or area of the house so that they don’t spread germs while they have the flu. If you can, allow them to have one bathroom of your home to themselves as well so that you can keep germs there and they don’t spread. When you go into your child’s room, where a face mask. You might even consider wearing gloves. Once you leave, make sure that you wipe down anything that you will be using later with an antibacterial hand wipe, and always use hand sanitizer. Keep tissues or anything else that your child disposes of in a separate bag, and dispose of it immediately.

 

To help your child feel better, make them clear broth with garlic and ginger. They may want to suck on a popsicle or drink some fizzy water to soothe their throat and stomach. Make sure that they get lots of rest and fluids when they can.