Splitting Costs after Divorce

Divorced parents will seldom split the bill on the big things in life. There is a big imbalance when it comes to things like after school activities, training, college and weddings. This can be seen even with people like Michael Phelps that have risen to Olympic champion fame. He was raised by a single mother, and the mother – seen at every Olympic swim medal event that Phelps participated in – is obviously the one that footed the bill for the dreams of her son.


According to New Jersey’s own Bari Zell Weinberger, family law expert and founder of the New Jersey Weinberger Law Group, the court will be the one that takes things into consideration when these type of issues arise. Weinberger has stated that the income of each parent is taken into consideration. There is also a matter of the demonstrated talent of the child in question. It is usually also easier to determine something if the child was already participating in the sport before the marriage ended. There should be some things that are clearly defined in the divorce proceedings if one parent is looking for help from the other.


In so many cases it all falls on the shoulders of the parent that have full custody. This is often the way that it happens if there is no clear court decision or written documentation that spells out the person that is in responsible. That is why parents that have multiple children should really make sure that they get something in writing when they are getting a divorce. It can become a very expensive thing to make the attempt to take care of the activities of multiple children that are trying to compete in various events outside of school.


It is never a good decision for any one parent to take all of these expense on. There will always be some resentment when this is done. It is better to have some costs that are split down the middle. This gives both parents some decisions making power regarding the activities that their children can participate in. There are a lot of children that make it to the top in the activities that they participate in, and the support of two parents is ideal.

Getting Child Care Costs in Writing

Divorce can be a messy affair. There are so many people that want to part ways with their mates and never see their faces again. If there are no children this may be an easy fix. Divorce papers are signed and each party can go on their way. It can be a lot of trouble to break free of a partner if there are some children that are involved. This is never a clean break. It is even much more likely that you will see one another on a pretty regular basis if the child has some after school activities that they participate in.


One of the big challenges that divorced couples face is

bill splitting for the cost of expenses for their children. This happens on so many occasions because there is no written documentation to support who pays what. In most cases the mother gets full custody. Sometimes there is a joint custody situation, but the expenses are still not completely discussed. Judges will usually order the father to pay child support. In situations where the wife is not working there may also be alimony. The extracurricular activities, however, are not really addressed. This can cause problems because a dad that pays child support may assume that he is doing all that the court requires. He may not offer a helping hand financially because he is not obligated to do so.


In most situations the male moves on with a new wife and sometimes starts a whole new family. This results in a shift in priorities. He focuses less on children from a previous marriage and puts his time towards the focus on the new relationship. This will cause even more strife with the ex-wife if he is paying for activities for step children or biological kids with his new wife. This is why it is better to get everything in writing as the divorce papers are getting signed. This may be the only way to find peace with the issues that may come forth when children decide to play sports or become cheerleaders.


Getting things in writing will cut down on financial confusion. It also stops parents that are trying to take credit for something that they did not really help do.

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt Divorce

What could possibly cause the split of Holly Woods hottest couple, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt? The couple had a fourteen year relationship, but were only married for two short years. They were united in marriage in August of 2014, their split was a surprise to many and become known to public when Angelina filed for divorce on September, 15 2016. Angelina filed for full custody of their six beautiful children Maddox, 15, Zahara, 11, Shilo, 10, and the twins Knox and Vivienne,8. ” I’ve found that www.insideedition.com has had some insightful information”. Many fans, family and close friends have been shocked by the recent news of the couples split. George clooney whom is a close friend of Brad’s was unaware of their current situation until, he was interviewed by a reporter from CNN.
The couple was last seen together this past summer in July with their daughter Shilo, they spent most of their summer apart. Brad spent most of his time over sees finishing his new film Allied. ” there have been some flying rumors that Brad and co-star from Aliied, Marion Cotillard have been having a steamy off screen romance. Brad has denied these rumors.” At this same time Angelina was busy finishing with directing her film First They Killed My Father. Was it the lack of time they spent together that caused the split? Some say it was karma that caused their split, because Angelina first got involved with Brad on the Set of their first film together Mr. and Mrs. Smith while he was still married to Jennifer Aniston.
” I have found www.telegraphco.uk very interesting” There have been recent allegations against Brad. Angelina, Brad and the children were recently on a flight that landed in Minnesota, it was reported that Brad had a few too many drinks and got in a verbal argument with their oldest son, Maddox. A source close to the family has stated that both Brad and Angelina had to do an interview with children protection services on this incident. Angelina has commented that her recent decision to divorce Brad is due to his alcohol intake and his anger issues